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Event Horizon
inside my mind a little house protects me from the monsters this quiet haven cradles me in safety the sharp edges of the world outside...
Jun 1, 20242 min read
The Heart-Softening Factory
I recently revisited the Bright Eyes album Cassadaga - which is a hell of an album - and a line from Classic Cars unexpectedly jumped out...
Apr 1, 20246 min read
What Does it Mean to Believe?
We love to believe. It's so exciting to have conviction in an idea that has yet to be proven, but that we think is true nonetheless....
Jul 4, 202318 min read
14 Things I Stopped Doing
I stopped wondering if my love for LGBTQ friends crosses the line into condoning their 'sinful' life choices. I just loved them. I...
Feb 14, 20232 min read
The Purpose of Life, Solved
For decades of my life I believed that a person who is black, gay, and/or single was barred from the top level of heaven (called...
Feb 13, 20236 min read
Embracing Uncertainty
When I was young I knew everything. For every question of “why?” that existed in the universe, I knew the answer. And I’m not being...
Oct 19, 20228 min read
The LDS Problem with Morality
Is it easier to be a moral person living as an active member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints? Such a question has...
Aug 8, 202211 min read
The Spirit of MMMBop
Mature beyond their years? Philosophers worthy of the world's respect and admiration? Gurus? Gods? When Isaac, Taylor, and Zac Hanson...
Jul 12, 20224 min read
Philosophies of Men
Love is all you need Overly simplistic naïveté Live in this moment An impractical trope Judge not Unless they’re different Live a good...
Jun 1, 20221 min read
On Gratitude
This is a talk that I gave in the Moraga Ward today: Given it’s Thanksgiving week, I was asked to speak on gratitude and I’ve had a lot...
Nov 21, 202113 min read
Zooming Out on Religion
Recently a few people have asked about my status with the church (aka The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, aka the - although...
Nov 3, 202112 min read
My Love Affair With Sales
Well dressed in Utah Valley means that you’re wearing your best pair of jeans tucked into your nicest sneakers. A well-dressed...
Sep 22, 202112 min read
I Punched the Fridge
The water dispenser on our refrigerator has a broken spring. So if you push it, you then have to pull it back, like a barbarian, or it...
Aug 20, 20214 min read
How Important is Joseph Smith?
I've thought about the LDS church quite a bit over the last ~five years. Of all of the interesting rabbit holes one could explore, one...
Aug 19, 20217 min read
A Gift From the Desert
There are two kinds of people in this world… desert people and other people. There is a harshness about the desert that is simultaneously...
Aug 16, 20213 min read
On Being a Secondary Caregiver
“Dad, how big is an Earth seed?” This was the fifth question in my 5-year-old son’s line of questioning. At this point we had conceded to...
Jul 22, 20215 min read
On first-hand experience
My four-year-old son Cal almost drowned yesterday. A rip tide on Ke Iki Beach sucked him out while playing in the shore break. Long story...
Apr 2, 20218 min read
Mormons vs. Followers of Jesus
A talk I gave today in the Golden Gate Ward: Today I want to talk about something that I’ve thought about over the last couple of years...
Nov 22, 202012 min read
Early Utah Territory Polygamy Data
For those that happen to be as interested in Mormon history as I am, I was looking for data from the early Utah period - specifically the...
Sep 1, 20203 min read
Second City Satire Submissions
I took a satire writing class online. Here are my submissions: Questions to Ask Yourself to Avoid Fake News Did a friend forward you the...
Mar 10, 202012 min read
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